After enduring a string of hostile encounters on dating apps, Alexandra Tweten created the Instagram account @ByeFelipe as a platform for women to voice their frustrations with online dating. The account has evolved into a space where women can share stories, screenshots, and laugh at the problematic men they encounter, effectively turning their negative experiences into a source of solidarity and empowerment. The name "Bye Felipe" riffs on the "Bye Felicia" meme, offering a modern, cool dismissal of unwanted attention.
In her book, Tweten combines humor, feminist theory, and practical advice to help women navigate the complexities of online dating. It includes profiles of problematic types of men—dubbed "Felipes"—such as the fat shamer, the mansplainer, and the sociopath. With guidance on handling unsolicited explicit messages and strategies for maintaining confidence, the book provides women with the tools they need to reclaim control and boost their self-worth in the often frustrating world of dating apps. Illustrated with stories, screenshots, and Riot Grrrl-inspired art, "Bye Felipe" is both a field guide and a rallying cry for women to stand up against harassment and negativity.